It really tears me apart when i m criticized and ostracized for being truthful and at the same time trying to help. It takes a lot out of me and takes time to heal. Basically spoils my week or month or more!
I know I am the kind of person that is oblivious to the finer niceties when dealing with people. Nevertheless in this case I did say that "in the current form," and then I gave suggestions on how to improve the work instead of just throwing the whole thing away. I also suggested to do certain changes and the work would be acceptable.
The next moment I get a litany of negativity from other person(s) involved.
WOW!
Even after explaining, the negativity continues.
WOW!
And explaining till my phone battery dies... and the litany continues.
WOW!
Now I am SAD!
I know I am the kind of person that is oblivious to the finer niceties when dealing with people. Nevertheless in this case I did say that "in the current form," and then I gave suggestions on how to improve the work instead of just throwing the whole thing away. I also suggested to do certain changes and the work would be acceptable.
The next moment I get a litany of negativity from other person(s) involved.
WOW!
Even after explaining, the negativity continues.
WOW!
And explaining till my phone battery dies... and the litany continues.
WOW!
Now I am SAD!
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